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The love of a pet can enrich our lives with their companionship and unconditional love. It is natural to feel devastated with grief over the loss of a pet. Many people experience more grief over the loss of a pet than they would an aunt, uncle or another distance family member. This becomes very confusing to us and others. Everyone needs to understand that our pets are a close member of our family and play an important role in our daily lives. The loss of a pet is life altering and leaves us going through a grieving process.

Grieving is personal and no one experiences the loss of a pet the same way. Although, it is easy to recognize the stages of grief even when one looses a pet. As you grieve it is healthy to recognize the stages of grieving.

Shock and denial

A numb disbelief. A shock at the overwhelming loss. A feeling that they should still be there. Shock gives us emotional protection from being overwhelmed with grief all at once.

Pain and guilt

When the shock wears off it leaves us with unbelievable guilt. The realization of how great our loss is. The thoughts of, “if I would of or could of did things differently” goes over and over in our mind. This pain can become a viscous cycle. It is important to forgive yourself and allow yourself to be human.

Life will feel chaotic and confusing during this time. Don’t hide from this pain. Take time to express the grief you feel over the loss of your pet. Having a friend who has experienced the loss of a pet will be helpful at this time. Someone to talk to who understands the important role your pet played in your life.

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